THE BREAK-UP

(attention: dont read this post if you're planning to see the movie)





a movie that reflects every common problems in every common relationships.
the subjects: "A" and "B".

"A" thinks that A has done too many things to mention, in order to maintain the relationship and make things works.. and A feels like doesnt get enough appreciation from B.

"B" thinks that B also made contributions in making things works and feels too safe about the relationship.. and thinks that A is being paranoid about the relationship.

.... until B realized that B hasnt done enough at all.
and by the time B realized that, A doesnt feel the same way to B any longer.

There's a saying from somebody i knew, that we feel love even greater when the other is leaving us behind. It's somehow true... although i prefer to say:
we can taste the bitterness of love more than the love itself..
We didnt notice how much we love somebody until that somebody decided to end the relationship.

back to the movie,
the ending part of it was also designed very commonly...
they didnt get back together.
even though it's not unnatural that two lovers can be lovers again after the break-up...
still more common that broke-up couples dont get back together...
things would be completely different.

Morale of the story:
if you're still in the relationship... appreciate your lover the best u can
if it's too late... get over your loved one cause he/she deserves to live better!

the land of music

a place where we can put all our troubles behind
and consider them as the past
a place where all we did was nothing but tranquility
and wisdom to find ourselves all over again

gluing back the pieces of hearts that has been broken so many times
and sealed them up with a cluster of music
looking back to the part of soul that has been long forgotten
and gathered the joy which was hidden and scattered in it

that we need to give ourselves a break
of this outrage, this indignation that has been walking as shadows in our path of life
that we need to find a clue
of a glimpse of light, to understand what's really going on behind all these pain

Aneh...
kalo maksudnya "A" kenapa harus ngomong "B"..
padahal kalo ngomong "A" juga ga selalu sesuatu yang buruk akan terjadi..
Kalo ngomong "B", yah namanya juga bohong... sooner or later kan akan nyakitin.

Gw di rumah punya 3 adik.. semua laki2 dan semua bandel (ga semua fotonya bisa dipajang di komputer kok Jen...) ;)
Maksud gw, semuanya bandel.
Gw dan adik2 sering berusaha ngebohong ke orang tua, terutama nyokap karena nyokap sering di rumah.. walopun ngga pernah sukses karena nyokap selalu tau yang benernya gimana.
Call it mystical but somehow I believe my mom has some kind of sense that allows her to know the truth for all times. Sometimes she even can predict what's going to happen if we did something. And if we fail to do "what's right in mom's opinion", the results are usually the same bad things that mom has told us before.

Even when we're sad... verrrrrry sad...,
she will always know no matter how hard we tried to cover it up.
Although she wouldnt ask if we're in silence,
she will show her love and compassion through her behaviour.
She will become a verrry loving mother at those time of troubles.
Agak aneh memang.... dan gw baru nyadar setelah gw dewasa.
Dia jadi super baik kalo kita lagi ada masalah berat,
especially yang susah untuk kita curhatin ke siapa2.

anyway... back to "A" and "B"...
kenapa harus bohong?
the answer:
- takut elo kesinggung
- takut elo malah menyusahkan gw

or simply:
- kenapa elo harus nanya?

and the conversation continues:
- loh... kan cuma nanya...

then the reply would be:
- nah kenapa elo harus tau?

and then:
- lah namanya juga cuma nanya... masa ga boleh nanya sama temen, toh bukan nanya sebagai pacar

Then a fight will arise, either small or big.
whatever the size of the fight is, somebody will get hurt..
physically or worst: emotionally.

So!
kalo maksudnya "A", kenapa harus ngomong "B"?
Kalo ngomong "A", kan jadinya nggak menyakiti sapa2.
end of that current conversation, toh!
Damai di bumi!